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    Amogh
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    Hello, I’m new here and I would like to receive some suggestions which would help me to overcome fear and anxiety. I become Anxious before i start something. For example, before taking a test i become anxious and negative thoughts enter my mind, like “What if i fail?”,etc. Even when riding my bike i feel anxious, tensed and my heart beat increases so bad that i just think “what if i die in an accident?” This happens with my everyday activities and I’m unable to enjoy the present, always living with anxiety, doubt and negativity making me lose my confidence and self-esteem. How do I live in the present? Will meditating help me?

    #214059
    Anonymous
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    Dear Amogh:

    Anxiety is a huge problem for so many of us. It does interfere with life, preventing us from paying attention to what we are doing, from enjoying ourselves and from functioning better. Anxiety is suffering.

    The good news is that there are things you can do about it. And it can get better, it will get better and better with work, persistence and patience, over time. Even this very day you can do something to feel better, this very hour. Only the anxiety will be back, this is why it takes so much persistence, and time.

    Guided meditation does help a lot of people. At first it is difficult for many, to stop the rushing of the thinking, to breathe in and out slowly, but if a person persists, gives it another chance, tries again, it gets easier and it helps.

    Because when anxious we rush, slowing down is best. In your daily activities, whenever and wherever it is possible to slow down, do so. Move slower and pay attention to your movements. This practice is called mindfulness, that is being attentive to your body, your movements, your environment. It is a skill that can be developed  over time.

    Slow yoga where stretching and holding positions is an excellent practice of mindfulness. When I first attended yoga classes I thought of it as taking an elevator down from the overthinking brain to the body.

    There is more of course. There is much more on the Home Page on this website. You can check out the different categories under “BLOG” for articles on Mindfulness.

    anita

     

    #214101
    Peter
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    I recommend the book – The Wisdom of Insecurity by Alan Watts

    When we experience anxiety, we are almost always trying to fix, fixate, the present – in other words we want to stop life, stop change, stop flow and control it. We want security

    We want security but security is fixed and life is flow (life cannot be fixed) so the more security we desire the more insecure we become. The only way to over come insecurity is to embrace insecurity.

    “To put is still more plainly: the desire for security and the feeling of insecurity are the same thing. To hold your breath is to lose your breath. A society based on the quest for security is nothing but a breath-retention contest in which everyone is as taut as a drum and as purple as a beet.” ― Alan W. Watts

    “But you cannot understand life and its mysteries as long as you try to grasp it. Indeed, you cannot grasp it, just as you cannot walk off with a river in a bucket. If you try to capture running water in a bucket, it is clear that you do not understand it and that you will always be disappointed, for in the bucket the water does not run. To “have” running water you must let go of it and let it run.”  ― Alan W. Watts

    #214221
    Amogh
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    Thank you Anita and Peter for your valuable replies. 🙂 I will practice these actions gently. Thank you very much!

    #214223
    Anonymous
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    You are very welcome, Amogh.

    anita

    #214239
    Karen
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    Sad as it can be, anxiety is evolutionary embedded in us.

    There’s no way to eliminate it.

    Get to know it a bit better.

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