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    Cara
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    No, you aren’t a bad person. You are a good person for being honest and for trying to still be friends with someone that hurt you. Now if you continued in this behavior and repeatedly engaged in behaviors that hurt other people, you might start to become a bad person, although I don’t even know if that’s true or not. I’m not a psychologist. I would say however, if you are feeling like you’re a bad person, you should talk to a therapist. They will be able to help you work through some of these feelings. There are a lot of free options out there, and although I like to think of myself as a great advice giver, I am nowhere near qualified to give you any advice at all. But from what you’ve written I don’t think you are a bad person.

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    Samwise
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    You cannot remain friends so I suggest you get that out of your thoughts. Accept your responsibility in the choices you made. If you don’t learn the lessons, they will happen over and over.

    The feelings are there and just allow yourself to see and acknowledge them. Let anger come out thru working out or running. You know that you are better off. The pain is real and stays there for a while, but trust me. One day you wake up and you realize that you don’t even feel it anymore. Life goes on and better things await you. Cut all contact and just move on. No need for anything else. Time will give you what you are seeking in terms of healing, but you gotta put in your part. Good luck!

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