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    Anonymous
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    Dear Karina Eleni:

    “On the way back home, we were on the train I was looking at him and I suddenly felt that I couldn’t look at him the same”- I think you are angry at him, for “chasing him while he was running the opposite direction”, and you are afraid that it will happen again. You definitely don’t want to chase him again… so you are angry in advance.

    “My brother said last week that everything he said when we broke up just spoiled the wholesomeness and the lovingness of the relationship. I know my boyfriend didn’t mean anything he said”-

    – what did he say?

    I am asking because it will help me understand better, and I would like to reply further.

    anita

     

    #326555
    Karina-Eleni
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    When I told him what my brother said and I agreed, he said he wasn’t bothered about my brothers opinion.

    #326581
    Anonymous
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    Dear Karina-Eleni:

    You wrote earlier: “I know my boyfriend didn’t mean anything he said”- my question was: what did your boyfriend say to you during the breakup, that which he supposedly didn’t mean-

    (not what he told you later about what your brother said).

    anita

     

    #327153
    Jim
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    Karina,

    i fee like sometimes the animosity is too overwhelming to the point that, sometimes you cant think long term. When i have been broken up with in the last, i so desperately wanted someone back, but once they returned, i wouldnt feel the same. As a man it might be different because we are more of chasers to achieve a goal.  When someone returns after they have hurt you, sometimes it feels like you can never forgive them. More often than not, history repeats, but i do believe that second chances are worth the slim possibility that there might be a chance that it works out.

    but you need to try and think of it in a long term process. My questions for you, had he not broken up with you briefly, where would your relationship be currently? Would you be questioning anything at all? What was your long term outlook on the two of you as a couple PRIOR to him approaching you about a break up?

    i will follow up once i see the answers to those questions, as i have been in a similar situation.

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