No I don’t think any good would come from telling him.

I guess in a way I was wondering if I could seperate the things he said about me regarding our romantic relationship into something different from our friendship

But I guess either was he has been disrespectful about me and made a bit of a joke of me which hurts

You’re right Anita

I think I’ve just realised that even if for whatever reason he was not attracted to me or found my health hard to deal with in our romantic relationship, that alone does not make him a bad person.

But he should have enough respect for me as a friend to not have ever said the things he said to another person, especially a complete stranger on the interned. And to say them in such derogatory language and laugh about it.

He says he cares about me as a friend, hut I think he looks at me as a crutch until he finds his  next ” victim ” and as a personal therapist and someone to talk to about his problems.

He does listen to my problems occasionally which I feel like probably a lot greater than his but the conversation is soon turned back onto himself

And I guess if he really does believe that I would get back with him at the drop of a hat, he probably finds that’s good for his ego to have me around.

Does it make me weak to still worry about him and his depression and and wellbeing?.

I guess I’ve made excuses for his selfish behaviour both while we were together in a relationship and now as friends because of his depression, but either way I know I don’t deserve that treatment.

think I’ve put his well-being out of my own though and I guess that is not healthy.

• This reply was modified 7 years, 1 month ago by Louise.
• This reply was modified 7 years, 1 month ago by Louise.