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  • October 27, 2018 at 11:28 am #233735
    Lily
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    Hi all 🙂

    My bf left me a week ago because he needed some time to himself and we were in a long distance relationship. I know he cares about me a lot and he stated many times he does not want to hurt me more than he has to etc.

    It came all surprise to me. As we live apart I would like to send him our pictures and few presents I got him earlier and some sort of…letter or a quote.

    I dont want him to feel pressured or chased. A simple quote or something..  I initially wanted to send a letter and tell him why I still love him and all the good things about our relationship but also that I do understand him as well and I wanted to say my apology. I have a feeling that If I overdo I might lose him for good and just push him away from me.

    So I am wondering if you guys would have any ideas of a quote? I messaged him to call with me (as it came so shock I was really feeling bad I reached out him few times this week. I decided I will now respect his wish to have some space and- break up from me..but I would like to re conciliate with him as we have a good relationship.

    Thank you.

    October 27, 2018 at 12:32 pm #233751
    Mei
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    Hi,

    My ex sent me a letter like that when we broke up and it didn’t really help me fell better. It was very nice yes, I appreciated it a lot, but it made me cry and feel guilty about making him suffer. I would advice you to just send him his things and, if you need it, a quote thanking him for everything and wishing him the best. Short, straight to the point and not romantic at all. Skip the presents since he probably won’t use them and will keep them hidden because otherwise it would hurt him. Don’t try to get him back  nor to keep him close, it’s extremely stressing (I know it from personal experience). And wouldn’t probably work long term. Let him go and, if you are meant to, you’ll get back together in the future and when you are both prepared for it.

    Hope it helps and wish you the best healing!

    • This reply was modified 6 years ago by Mei.
    October 29, 2018 at 11:58 am #234335
    Carol
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    I feel your pain,my ex just broke up with me.9 yrs together no ring.i feel dead ! I’m turning 50 soon and I’m a single mom.im trying to get through this.i do love him.i sent him a letter too.he won’t talk to me at all.he came to see me last Sunday and we was fine.made love and Monday he didn’t want to see me.same for rest of the week.i didn’t know why.i had a small surgery on Thursday and he didn’t care.im mad as hell and I want to confront him and why.i don’t know if it’s someone else but he’s never cheated on me ever.clee

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