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Mangal Kavita.
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September 23, 2018 at 10:16 am #226825
Mangal Kavita
ParticipantHey dude,
I read yours whole story and I really start crying, mine first reaction is ohh my god…
Let comes to you, the girls loves you too.. if yess then you must talk her parents and your parents too. You should tell your parents first that I love a girl I want to spend my whole life and if you parents understand and then you should go to girls parents and communicate with them and believe them a day after completing yours studies you will get a pretty job ,
Told them you will do her marriage with another person but what next , she will never be happy then will you be uncle and aunty being happy… she loves me too we both are independent and what’s problem in it. I promised you that I will get a job just give me time… and I hope they understand.. just trying trying!!! Hope you get your love.. and spend whole life ,I will pray for you !!
Try to communicate a girl and parents too… because it’s time to confess her parents and your parents too…
Hope you find solutions !!
Khanai!!!
September 23, 2018 at 10:48 am #226831phoenixlads
ParticipantMy parents already know. Sorry, I forgot to mention in the post. It’s her parents who are not trying to understand. They don’t even want to talk to me. They are just trying emotional blackmail methods on her so that she breaks down – which she already has.
September 23, 2018 at 11:15 pm #226911Mangal Kavita
Participant- Okay… I understand… you told yours parents to go her parents and communicate girl parents about a marriage proposal…I mean her parents wants to marry a well settled boy okay then I think you should tell your parents to consive her parents. Now yours parents can do anything because her parents don’t want to talk you , but if they can talk your parents then you must told your parents and tell then you can’t survive without her , she is your strength n all… hope they understand your situation and try to communicate her parents!!!
- What’s the problem of her parents, is it that you are jobless !!
September 24, 2018 at 3:26 am #226917phoenixlads
ParticipantI am doing Masters right now, which will end in April 2019. Soon, in May or June, I will get a job – here in Germany or in India. They need someone who already has a job and is well settled.
September 24, 2018 at 4:26 am #226927Mangal Kavita
ParticipantOkay.. oh God… almost this year has gone,
I think tumko apne parents se batt karna chiye or bol do ki vo girl ke ghr marriage proposal lekar jaye… and try open and communicate unko…. try again… I mean tum or tumari family agar proposal lekar jati h unko convince kar lete h tum 2019 m job hogi after completing masters then sayed mn jaye…unki family ko ye bhi samjane ki kosish karna ki kya fayeda ye kisi or ke sath khush nhi rhegi kya app khush rhoge… using emotional intelligence to your parents and her parents too…. hope you understand what I’m saying!!!
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