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Hi Mimia
It sounds like you were in a very difficult position when you moved country, but you did the best you could to get out of that situation as fast as you could.
Sleeping with 6 people for money is not many. Ignoring stigma and other people’s judgments. How does it make you feel that you went through that?
Anyone with a good heart would give you grace.
It sounds like your boyfriend’s comment about not dating sex workers struck a bit of a nerve. But maybe he was thinking about someone who currently does that. Or someone who did it for much longer, more seriously. It sounds like it was a very temporary emergency situation for you.
I’m so glad to hear you’ve been going to therapy and you choose people who treat you well. You deserve it! Very well done on creating a wonderful life for yourself. 🩵
It’s up to you if you tell him. Do you worry that if you told him he wouldn’t accept you? 🩵
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