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  • in reply to: The pain of loving someone you can't have. #61466
    yogabunny
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    in reply to: The pain of loving someone you can't have. #61323
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    Totally know what you mean about not being able to put into words the connection. I have that too, when we text/e-mail it is all very bland but when we are together there is an energy flowing between us that is on another level that the logical, conscious mind can’t comprehend. My situation very different as we are both married and I can’t have him at all but I won’t walk away because there is a reason people are bought into your life and it may be to teach us a lesson, be there for us during a hard time, it could even be that we were together in a previous life and it is simply ‘recognition’ on a very deep level. You really need to just hang in there …. he is in your life for a reason and you won’t be branded a home wreaker, at the risk of sounding blasé, he is not married and there are no children involved. You are both adults and you can and probably will have many relationships before you settle down. Just out of interest have you ever mentioned having a boyfriend in front of him? If so how did he react, does he seem put out if you are chatting to other men?

    in reply to: The pain of loving someone you can't have. #61139
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    I totally agree with Emma (so much so I had to join the website as I was not a member!) The thing is we are drawn to people for a reason and if you are drawn to him hang in there, I am not advocating doing something about it but obviously there is a reason for it for all of you and if you walk away you may just find yourself in the same situation. It is for him to worry about his relationship and it may be that it is not meant to be, as long as your conscience is clear I would just stay put and see what develops. Believe me your situation is much easier than my unrequited love! And I also agree with Sojourner, communication is very important although very difficult but it may help especially if he denies any feelings or goes cold on you – then you have your answer!

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