Lily,

It’s awful when men do this but the silence is an indication that he is ashamed of his actions because he knows he was flirting. My boyfriend has nurtured similar situations with other women for which I am expected to pretend that it is simply friendship. I know these women are looking for love, I know because I was also there once. This behaviour is shameful but if you can find it in your heart to see that these people desire the attention in addition to the love they receive in their relationship, you will begin to appreciate how tragic they really are.

Flirting to feed your ego and disguising this under the blanket of friendship is possibly one of the most serious diseases of modern pretentiousness. You got a lucky escape from a guy who deep down is actually a bit of a loser. He knows it, and you need to know it too.

“They say the greatest coward can hurt the most ferociously”- Annie Lennox

Besos babe! Stay strong xxx