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  • December 28, 2017 at 5:44 am in reply to: Young and Jobless #184053
    WorrierLady
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    Hi again,

    It is possible but somehow I don’t want to get her in trouble again. I am hopeful that she still has a little compassion left and she does the right thing. If not, then I am left with no choice but to take legal action.

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    December 27, 2017 at 6:01 pm in reply to: Why do I feel negative at work? #183991
    WorrierLady
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    Hi Ken,

    Just keep asking questions. No one gets fired for doing that because you are doing your job. Think of it that way.

    December 27, 2017 at 5:57 pm in reply to: LIFE HAS BECAME A TORTURE #183989
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    Hi Rishabh,

    It is you who is torturing yourself, not life. It sounds like your mind is living in the past. Hence, you do not see the beauty of the now. Control your thinking. If you find yourself in that self pity hole again, do something like going for a run, cooking or reading.

    “Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves – regret for the past and fear of the future.” – Fulton Oursler

    December 27, 2017 at 5:49 pm in reply to: Where do I go from here? #183987
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    Hi Matt,

    What are you angry about? Whatever you are feeling right now will pass like how days just come and go. Do not stress yourself with the past and the future. Instead, enjoy the moment and surrender to God (or to the universe).

    Whenever I am in a bad place, I still choose to find the good things in my every day. For example if I was betrayed by my bestfriend, I think of how I still have a family to wake up to, I have a healthy body or a dog who loves me dear.  This equips your mind that you are in a good place. Practice that. Appreciating what you have today is REALITY and the TRUTH. Whenever you think you are useless, you yourself is the root of your SUFFERING. If you know you are useless to your family, then so be it. It is not the end. Your life is being redirected to something even more. Trust that. Every story is different for everyone. Good family ties is not a basis of a good life. It’s your mind.

    “Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves – regret for the past and fear of the future.” – Fulton Oursler

    December 27, 2017 at 5:31 pm in reply to: Young and Jobless #183985
    WorrierLady
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    Hi Eliana,

    Thank you for your words! I will keep those in mind. I will not give up. This is just another setback that will pass. I will keep the fire burning inside me.

    Sidenote: It’s WorrierLady that I combined with the words “worry” and “warrior” (pun intended)

    December 27, 2017 at 5:27 pm in reply to: Young and Jobless #183983
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    Hi Anita,

    Working in operations is chaotic. There were times I was not able to deliver some of my tasks well so my boss would always throw mean words at me everyday. I felt like I was a burden to her so I decided to leave her team. She took my resignation personally because her superiors knew of her attitude and poor coaching towards me.

    “A good boss is better than a good company.” – Jack Ma

     

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