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  • December 20, 2015 at 8:25 pm in reply to: Am I forever a screw up? #90083
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    And Thanks Jack for sharing! believe it or not you matter all of us do!

    December 20, 2015 at 8:22 pm in reply to: Am I forever a screw up? #90082
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    To: Anita I am truly sorry! I was not laughing at you nor making fun. All I met is that Now I can dig in deep from what you have told me, and start trying to heal myself. I just want to happy and never be a stumbling block to anyone!
    In my post from the start to end I was just being honest, and sharing my story!
    Even though I don’t know you and Jack. I feel that I can learn a lot from you two, and maybe even have a type of bonding online through Tiny Buddha…
    It’s all water under the bridge far as I’m concerned.. Love You guys! and hope to read, hear, and share in many more post to come! peace.

    December 20, 2015 at 8:10 pm in reply to: Last thing on my "Bucket List" #90074
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    THANKS ANITA! YOU’RE MORE THAN WELCOME TO JOIN US!
    THE BEACH LIFE IS GOOD!
    DON’T FORGET TO BRING YOUR (TIRAMISU) I WOULD LOVE TO TRY IT…AS LONG AS THERE ARE NO BEETS IN IT! LOL

    AND THAT’S OKAY TO NOT KNOW. I PERFER YOUR REPLY TO BE FROM THE HEART AND WELL THOUGHT OUT! BECAUSE I KNOW WHEN YOU DO THINK OF ONE, IT’LL BE WORTH READING. WHO KNOWS I MIGHT JUST HAVE TO ADD MORE THINGS ON MY BUCKET LIST.
    YOU AND JACK REALLY DO HAVE GREAT INSIGHT ON THINGS!

    December 20, 2015 at 7:59 pm in reply to: Last thing on my "Bucket List" #90069
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    Smores- marshmallows, chocolate, and graham crackers all in one roasted.

    December 20, 2015 at 7:57 pm in reply to: Last thing on my "Bucket List" #90067
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    Smores- marshmallows, chocolate, and graham crackers all in one roasted.
    To: Anita what is Tiramisu? it sounds like it could be really good.

    December 20, 2015 at 7:49 pm in reply to: Last thing on my "Bucket List" #90059
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    Hahaha I love it!
    Down to earth! Wow Australia, a wife, mans best friend, a nice cold fosters beer maybe? lol
    80’s music, sporting arenas nice! even a little cancer stick might as well, last day lol.
    I love beaches, I don’t know why but something about the sound, sand, ocean water, and sun, moon all under one setting. so peaceful.

    80’s song would you listen to the one from Breakfast Club, at the end of the movie? ( DON’T YOU FORGET ABOUT ME).
    since it’s your last day on your bucket list. lol
    I always liked that song. I’m a big fan of cheesy 80’s movies. After all I was born in 1978. (I’m a 80’s kid)

    So what sport arenas would you visit? Maybe I will go online and look them up..
    I seen cricket before on tv but don’t understand the rules!

    Well thanks for replying to my post! hope to from you soon..peace!
    Oh! congrats on the not smoking for over 8 years! yay for you!

    How’s the weather out there year around?

    December 20, 2015 at 7:23 pm in reply to: Am I forever a screw up? #90050
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    I’m not sure on what you mean Anita? meaning the it?
    So I had pasted and copied one of my lines, which is at the very start of this covo.

    Yes I do understand trust can be misleading, because of me being a liar.
    But weather you want to believe me or not, it doesn’t matter. I only say this because

    1) I don’t know you!
    2) I came on this website at my own free will, to expressed myself and real life situations to people that I don’t even know. Who might judge me or even miss guide me with words. But nevertheless I have been nothing but truthful to all.
    Even admitting my own mistakes and flaws.
    3) Not once did I write anything to make me look like a (Martyr)
    4) I told you and to who ever read my post, that Yes! I still do lie, when it comes to my peers, ex work mates, and females that question me about money, work, or if I have any kids.

    So I really don’t know where all of this came from, meaning you!
    this is what you wrote: Is that right, who, do you mean it? You know how difficult it is… now I wonder if you are sincere. Because you said you lie to people. Now, how do I know?

    To answer this: when I said it”….. (I was talking about, speaking the truth even if it’s uncomfortable for me).
    Meaning about my not having a job, my son, and being broke. Nothing less nothing more. That’s all I was talking about.
    Then you say that you don’t know if I’m being (sincere) with you, I was… and I am…

    It kinda sucks that you would even feel this way about me, when I never done anything to you but post!
    It’s easy for people to “assume” and “analyze” but it doesn’t always mean it’s true.

    Example: I’m assuming that by the way you talk or word things, you are really not a troubled person. But a person who is pretending to be troubled, when actuality you are really a Psychologist just doing research on people with real issues.

    Example: Or I could assume that you are a person who pretends to be nice, but only looks at flaws in people, just to throw them in their faces.
    Only examples.
    But the truth is that I don’t believe you are any of those things.
    To speak, ask and get answers, that’s what I’m here on Tiny Buddha for! Growth.. Not to argue! if I wanted that, I’d just go out into the real world.

    I have nothing but respect! for you and all on here! because it takes courage to speak about serious things.
    Much Love and hope to hear from you soon.

    December 20, 2015 at 4:15 pm in reply to: Question Are we born with a Purpose or do we create our own? #90034
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    Ahhh I see, straight forward but real. Much Appreciated Anita!

    December 20, 2015 at 4:04 pm in reply to: SO much LOVE, TOO much destroyed, What is left? #90032
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    Dear: Starfish
    I want to start off by saying, Thank You for posting! It takes a lot of courage to do so.

    When it comes to the whole not being independent thing, I can relate.
    All my life from a kid up to my adult hood, all I ever wanted was to be independent. Because to me it’s a source of freedom. Meaning not having to deal with certain types of people, just because you are under their roof, or on their time. People even family sometimes take advantage of you just because they know that you don’t have your stuff together. Talk down on you and etc. And it sucks because we are good people, trying to overcome obstacles in this beautiful but cruel world.

    It is nice that you are doing the best you can for your children!
    Sometimes we let our guard down when we go through a rough relationship and get right back into another one. Being blind to the obvious because we just want the need and acceptance to feel loved by someone. Believe me I know! I’ve been on both sides, meaning the victim and the jerk! and because of being such a jerk! I’ve been single for quite some time.

    I’m 37 years of age. I’m just learning now that this time I’m given to myself, is for me to self improve. Plus learn how to become independent.
    As of now I’m seeking employment. It’s a very frustrating task! and the only jobs that seem to hire, are ones built for teens, which never can pay enough in order to live. All I can say Is something that you probably don’t want to hear. Don’t give up! and keep on filling out apps. I do 3 apps a day. Try applying for overpaying jobs even if you don’t have all the experience need. Most jobs if they like you from the interview will train you anyways. (SNAG A JOB.COM) it’s one of the many websites that I go on hunting for jobs.

    You seem like a really nice person. Just be grateful that you have your children and a wonderful relationship with them. I admire that!
    Because as of now that’s something I want to have in my future with my 10 year old son. Because I don’t..

    Stay strong and eventually something amazing will happen and things will fall into place as long as you do your part.

    December 20, 2015 at 3:10 pm in reply to: Am I forever a screw up? #90029
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    Dam….
    Thanks! Anita for making things more clear for me to understand and begin my process to heal.

    December 20, 2015 at 2:55 pm in reply to: Question Are we born with a Purpose or do we create our own? #90027
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    Thank You! Anita
    Wow nice poem, that was deep. It seems like I have some things to reflect on.
    This might sound stupid, but have you ever wondered if the laws of nature always been like this?
    Meaning to live and die..

    Question everything thing in life has a constant motion, or rhythm cycle. Day in and year out. So does that mean, If motion was to just stop, life wouldn’t exist anymore? I guess what I’m asking is does Life need motion in order to be? (universe, planets, animals, people)

    And what if the everyday patterns somehow change, meaning start a new pattern, would we as humans adapt, evolve or just die?
    Is the want to live forever just that an illusion? And if so then why do us as humans try so hard to fight against what is natural???
    Last question, (WHAT IS A SOUL)?…
    I mean I know the definition of a soul. But what is a soul? People speak about it as if it’s normal, like they understand it. You know the this is a temporary shell we live in, and our soul will continue blah blah blah. I don’t understand. Is it life or is it death?

    Thanks! to any who might be able to give me some feed back.

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    December 19, 2015 at 11:09 pm in reply to: Question Are we born with a Purpose or do we create our own? #89989
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    Thanks! for shedding light on that Jack.

    December 19, 2015 at 10:59 pm in reply to: What I fear… #89988
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    As for me, I do fear death.
    Example If someone had already experienced death and came back right now. And told me that everything will be okay when I died.
    I’d still be afraid because of uncertainty of the unknown. (Fear)
    I believe that life is about experience and perception.
    Many many people live here all walks of life, with different backgrounds and cultures. There is no right or wrong answer. I feel that as long as it works for you! it’s okay..No matter what you do or don’t believe in.
    Perception no one truly knows!
    The thought to not exist anymore scary!
    I watched a documentary about prisoners who had got the death penalty. When they had first arrived into prison, they all looked at the camera and said that they were not afraid of death! Boldly they made this statement. As time went on for some years.
    Their final day had arrived. When showing them to their last minute on film. They all wur sweating profusely under the arms. Their eyes pupils wur dilated and small quick twitches of the fingers. Breathes wur fast but low pitched, showing signs of fear!

    I guess death is taboo to me because of now life is all I know. I think?

    December 19, 2015 at 9:55 pm in reply to: A Poem to share #89984
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    Amazing! and Heartfelt!

    December 19, 2015 at 9:50 pm in reply to: A Poem to share #89983
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    Amazing! nand Heartfelt!

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