I am going through a breakup also. It’s been four months and he still doesn’t seem to miss me or show that he cared. I know right after the breakup he was with some girl, and they were dating or seeing each other for some time. I was heartbroken when I found out but then I told myself that I just need to work on myself to become better. I was hurt because we dated for a long time, how can he leave a relationship, without explaining why or letting me know how I could have fixed things. I know a lot of times I really don’t listen, and I don’t try to work on myself, and that is why I am left here, but I really wish he would give me a chance one day. I really wish that if I worked on myself, he would see and one day he would come back.