Such beautiful, wonderful responses! Thank you so much, ladies! The both of you are right. I just have to believe and trust things will work out while I live life. A guy would be nice but I guess I should take this time in my life to explore myself more. Perhaps that’s the lesson lol.
Iris: Yeah those guys were looking for a different kind of woman. The kind I just couldn’t be for them. There are some important things I didn’t want to compromise on. Not knocking other woman that fit what they want, but I see what you mean. Add in the fact I used to like the wrong kind of guys or ones lacking the qualities that make a good relationship-I probably the need extra time for myself and resist the urge to chase/force.
Florence: I know what it’s like to wait for a text! Oh, it’s horrible! But I’ve changed my policy on that after a disaster I had about a year ago. I literally was getting sick over waiting for texts. I can’t believe what I put myself through when I think back on it! I was breaking a sweat and hurting over crumbs basically. I wanted things to work so bad.
Sometimes I feel this societal pressure and pressure from family. Like you are supposed to be married in your twenties. Kids in 30s…so on. I have to remember it’s not realistic for *every* person to meet those timelines.
Thank you ladies so much again 🙂
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