Just know that whatever doesn’t kill you really does make you stronger. It’s true. This won’t kill you. It’s hard. By no means do I want to minimize what you’re going through. But you will get through this. My divorce was so simple — we didn’t fight, had no kids, agreed on everything, didn’t even go to court. But I wanted to die because I felt like such a failure. Now that I’m on the other side I can see that God had another better plan for my life. Just have faith. And know that faith is believing in what common sense tells you not to believe. God has you in the palm of his hand. He won’t let go of you and you should never let go of him either. Hang in there — things will get better. I know from experience. Bless you and don’t ever forget LADIES — life after divorcse is eventually sane.