Dear Anita,

Yeahh.. i think so too.
But still I need a good advice what to do and what should I do in this kind of situation.

Thanks Anita, you read it and you reply me. Thank you so much.

Dear Anita,

She will have wedding ceremony by this month. And the wedding reception early 2017.
When she told me about this, actually I already talk to her, crying with her and saw that she is really disappointed in her self to let this incident happen. I want to help her, but I still can’t get myself together. The fact she already have sexual activity with her BF, I dont really care, the things is she let her pregnant. I dont understand about this.. and let all the people trust her in vain….

To Anita and Bethany.

Thanks for your support until now, i’ve been thinking hard lately and wondering enough.
And i’ll think to try to consult a therapist, i just need the one that seem trusted.
I think im ready for the new start!
I just get enough of this situation, and i’ll try to get all the positive vibe from my past.
Hope i can change for the better start!
Also i dont want to rush in any relationship, i will wait and take it easy.
I believe if i change to a better person, my life become full of colors!

I feel like get struck by something inside me, that think
“f*ck of about it, i dont care anymore bout that. This is me and so what”
Human make mistake and i am also human.

Thanks for being here and give an advice for me! I feel much more better! <3 <3

To my dear Anita,
Thank you for your kind words,
i also thinking to consult a therapist, but i dont know if i really need that, my head is just full of doubt.
i fear of not being good enough, doubt people, and not easily be friends with ppl.
i am an ambivert person, i like to go to adventure,
but in the same time i dont like to be surrounded by new ppl around, makes me tired.

And can i get your another advice?
why do the boys started to back off as soon as i said
“to fast for me to take another level, i need more time”
and
“it maybe hard for me to fall in love again”.

Am i the problem in here? because of how i tell them??

Thanks, i hope you reply it.

Thank you for your advice. im learning how my past and others things will make me stronger. Maybe i just isnt ready for a new relationship, i must make my mind and clearly think that my past is something good experience. Well i hope i can give it a try!