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  • January 21, 2019 at 9:52 am in reply to: I got in touch with a girl I cut contact with 5 years ago? #275969
    UKinFR
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    I don’t know Anita…

    I can’t figure out why I did half the things I did when I was younger, let alone what I did to her.

    Maybe it was too soon for me to be involved such a serious and intense thing? I wasn’t mature enough and I was too rash.

     

    I know I’ve blown it with her… I just wish I could have a second chance – or at least get to talk to her face to face

     

     

     

    January 21, 2019 at 9:38 am in reply to: I got in touch with a girl I cut contact with 5 years ago? #275965
    UKinFR
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    Thank you for response Anita:

    1) What I mean is that we shared affection and attraction for one another. For 3-4 years we met during the summer. She invited me to her Prom in 2014 and we went together. Her friends all knew about me and her best friend told me “She can’t stop talking about you”

    We were effectively “lovers”, but didn’t get to the relationship stage. We went out together a few times, but since we didn’t live in the same country, these times were far and few between.

     

    2) What hurt me the most was the geographical distance. We didn’t see eachother often at all (usually during the summer for a couple of weeks). Another thing was not knowing where I stood with her, and what she wanted us to be.

    I was frustrated. Not towards her, but because of our situation. Effectively, I gave up.

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