I am going through the EXACT same thing, finally found my soulmate and he’s 2000 miles away. Things were going great and then I lost my job and have become a lonely, insecure, needy basket case. Meditation and singing work for a while and then I find myself drifting back to the dark places. All of this advice has been so very helpful, thanks so much!!

If you don’t mind Erin, I’m going to print your beautifully detailed advice out and put it on my bedroom dresser mirror. He is the last thought before I go to sleep and the first when I wake. This will remind me to carry him with me as I move forward in hope, instead of just standing still in worry.

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