Hello everyone,

I am dealing with a similar situation. I have been in my relationship for 6 yrs and we have a child together. We have been having a rocky yr together and sometime its hard to talk to him. Since January he has told me that he feels like we are growing apart and due to that we took some space(a week) and got back and we were wonderful for a month. Once that month ended we began arguing again not being able to just talk about our issues. Now he moved out and i am trying to figure out how am i going to co-parent with my feelings in this mix. He tells me he loves me some much but we have to see if this is worth being together and what are we doing wrong…But he only sees the negative and all the positive we have goes out the window..he tells  that he need to find himself and focus because he can not fully love me if he cannot love himself and that this can take a while but he just doesn’t know… Its not that i do not understand, I just don’t know how to deal with it because hes still around and we talk everyday not just for the baby but being cordial about the situation.. sometime my child would mention his dad and want to do things as a family and it breaks my heart.. I’ve talked to him about this and he tells me this is a good time to realize everything and that he cant help if i decide to move on even if it hurts him and just the same for him that he might decide us apart might be best but hes lost..I know i have to focus on me and I do and but as soon as i feel like things are getting better he calls and i am back to square 1.. I just don’t know what to do ? I always thought we where stronger than this and now i feel lost..What am I supposed to do?