Hi Sara,

In my opinion, it sounds like he’s still on the fence about getting too heavily involved in a relationship with you. All the telltale signs are there:

• He’s still responding/contacting you.
• He doesn’t let you in on his plans.
• He doesn’t commit to any of your plans.

Basically, what I’m saying is that it sounds like he’s interested, but not 100% sold. He’s keeping the option open if that makes sense. That being said, if you’re truly interested in making something work with him, I recommend you keep it casual at this point. I wouldn’t push too much and make it seem like it’s either all-in or nothing. That’ll just scare him off.

Just my two cents. I hope it helps.

Jason