No,he does not deserve it, it is complicated though.calling out to family & friends backfired for me. I was totally blindsided by this. I just knew they would support me by his actions. No one was willing to say his actions were even slightly wrong. How could this be?? It just did. People don’t want to get involved, children or not. Its so hard to calculate faster than a bad person does. It requires no effort on their part. Its hard to believe that another persons venom can make you self destruct, but it can. You can’t turn your mind off. The occasional drink gives temporary relief. The search for answers continue. Some people are just mean & they know just how to make it ALL be your fault. The word hard doesn’t come close….