thanks for your responses anita 😆

sorry i didn’t word that properly, of course actions are important like i don’t say something and act completely different, i was always big on communication and being open and vocal about everything and she struggled with that. what i deemed to be actions she thought was not as in little things like cooking dinner, picking her up from work, taking care of her when she broke her collarbone etc that all turned into you don’t care, you never did which frustrates me the most because i do care i cared so so much but my actions never showed it?

you’re right i don’t miss a lot of things and i tend to forget the negative but also it’s hard to let go of all the good times and how i did feel. so i guess i’m asking how to deal or combat with the weak moments and moving forward?