I have friends who didnât want kids & thatâs fine by me. Itâs their personal & private choice and nothing is wrong with that. In fact before I met my DH, I was career focused & did not want kids either. I didnât have time for kids nor did I want to be wiping snotty noses. I eventually had one child later in life, who I adore & love to death, but I still donât like âchildrenâ overall. I still donât understand the obsession of people needing others to have children. I got really sick of people asking me that before & I got really sick of people asking me about when I was having a 2nd one!