When I first got involved with her, I made it clear that I’m looking for a serious relationship but then I tried to get physical with her too quick. I was under the impression that “I’m seeing someone” line, was used to keep me out of her pants. For a long time, I refused to believe that she actually has someone else. I thought that she is playing hard to get!

I’ve spoken to her about this a number of times. I told her that if she is seeing someone else, she should leave me alone and that her actions towards me are misleading. Yet, she just continued to pull me in.

For the first few month, it was more like a back stubbing game. We took turns at hurting each other; until I confessed to her about my feelings. As soon as I made a confession- it was a game over for me! She stopped chasing and changed it into a waiting game. She has a degree in psychology and she is a charming women, it was not an equal fight.

At first, she would never speak about the other man in front of me. Later, it has slowly intensified until she became very open about it.

I am also curious about what her response was the night this happened:

“I would suggest that we go to your bed but I’m afraid things might end up being inappropriate”

I did ask her if she is into one-night stands and she said that she was not. Then, she received a text message from her sister, saying that she is pregnant with a second child. She picked up the phone and started messaging the guy about the news. I asked her “what are you doing?!”, she said “I need to tell him”. After that, I was not too persistent. She was so horny; I could smell her ****** from a mile away.

Of course she was upset. While I was driving her home, she broke up with me by saying “we are just friends and I’m into dating black man”. I told her that we can’t be friends because I see her as a woman. Later she messaged me asking if I got home ok, I did not respond, she started calling, I did not respond. I messaged her the next day saying that I was fine.

Actually, I’m glad that nothing happened and here I have my chance to end this madness. I know that I should. Unfortunately, I’m in love with her.