Dear Donnie,

I am going through the same situation as yours. You know, I am 1 year away from my ex wife who cheated on me with her boss. She was abducted from my life since the discovery of all of the happening and I must say that it is not easy to let it go. But as time goes I can say that I see that this was the best that could have happened. The hurt feelings still exist and probably they will forever. But they are much lighter and I can now deal better with it. The reason that makes people behave like that are unknown. I can say one thing: do not blame yourself for that. The person that suffers the most at the end is the one who cheated. Even though she might appear happy to your eyes it is impossible to a human being not to be feeling bad by doing crap things to someone who devoted his life to her. That was my case too. I never was a perfect husband and I will never be, because it is not human to be perfect. But, I did my best. She could not like me anymore, but the fact that she did things on my back was what made me feel so bad. I am under medication nowadays, because I was shocked and I could not live normally. But now I feel that the feelings have transformed. In my opinion it seems like you have never moved forward to a different situation in your life. I have now a new and lovely girlfriend who loves me and is linked to me much deeper than my ex. So keep going….push up to your beliefs. Have fun in your life and change your perspective.

Marcos