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  • May 16, 2017 at 5:57 am in reply to: My ex returned when I started being happy again.. #149623
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    I must confess… you have a good heart.. you compassionate and mild at heart.

    According to what you said you feel happy and content without him in your life, i will advice you to let him go and move forward. There is a brighter future ahead of you. Just move on sister….

    I was/am in a similar i always felt i could turn a bad relationship into a good everytime but i was wrong, the reason i forgave then was just similar to yours i imagine her being lonely and alone so start developing feelings of pity for her. So i went back to her and i went to my unhappiness back because it was a wrong relationship

    I will advice look at your life without him , look at the peace you have…. you cant lose that for anything… move on sister

    You Derserve A Better Life

    May 16, 2017 at 12:47 am in reply to: I am losing myself. I need help #149611
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    I went to see a therapist and i did some self reflection i have gotten to realise that i am just lusting after her. Yes we have a wonderful sex life. it is just lust. Sometimes lust makes you think you love the person you are lusting after.


    @Anita     after a good self reflection and looking real back i realised i stopped loving her immediately i found out she was lieing to me. It was hard for me to really fall in love with her because of her lies. But i still stayed with her thinking it was love it was lust Anita. Even when i saw all her flaws i still stayed.

    I think lust is more dangerous than love. It makes you do stupid things. Take shit.

    I just need help to get over this lust, i am now being tempted to reach out to her. all for the lust nothing else.


    @Susannah     after my time with the therapist i realised my shortcomings. I am just lusting after her.

    Lust makes you do stupid things

    My property  is still at her place. I decided to forget the property i told her to help me give it to a friend but she insisted on me coming to take it myself, but i know seeing will increase my lust for her.

    May 11, 2017 at 5:52 am in reply to: Sister in laws don't like me #148991
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    A collegue of mine is going through similar situation. She told me about her ordeal and i gave her an advice which i am going to give you now. She however did not follow my advice and it resulted in her husband beating her for the first time in their marriage.

    Take it easy. Talk to your husband, i mean talk to him not argue or fight with him while talking to him about your unhappiness and distress. Talk to him and lets see what happens next. What i have noticed in relationships is good communication helps to avoid alot of problems

     

     

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