Anita, I can’t believe what you have written in your post now at 9:39 and I am leaving for good.

This is too much for me. I can’t continue.

“I’ve got to say that I was rather surprised, and honestly, a bit upset when I saw Anita posted in your thread this morning, expressing empathy and compassion for the suffering you went through as a child, however without saying a word about the past conflict, or offering an apology.

To me, that’s not how you repair a relationship. You cannot just pretend that nothing happened and walk in as if no harm was done previously. You cannot continue business-as-usual without acknowledging and taking responsibility for your past actions…”

It really hit me hard.

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Tee and Alessa, I understand you. ❤️

Maybe Anita would like to add her point of view, or explain her feelings about the conflict?

I am open to hear you, too, Anita. 🌸

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Hello everyone,

I’m wondering if you have any ideas or experiences on how to behave properly when we want to be polite and assertive, but perhaps we have to say something that is not pleasant to the other person…

But we need to say it, because that person is negatively affecting themselves or others… perhaps they are suffering terribly, but because of their own suffering they don’t even see how they are destroying themselves and others…

It is very difficult for me, because this very often leads to a conflict, because many people don’t like being confronted with their own mistakes.

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