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silvery blue
ParticipantHello Anita, 🙂
can you help me to understand a little bit. I feel I am not following what you mean. You wrote:
” I know that my humility and vulnerability can be an invitation for these things to be used against me… Perhaps similar to your vulnerability having been used against you?
You know about fake-empathy, fake words.. I know these too now, more than before.”
And you wrote about that politeness can be seen artificial in my country. I am not sure about the connection between this and the idea that humility and vulnerability was used against us. I’m not sure what you mean.
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silvery blue
ParticipantHello Anita and Alessa,
Thank you for your warm welcome. I didn’t expect it.
I am glad that you feel affection for me, Anita. Especially after I left you with pain when I wrote to you that you were not healing. I apologize for being unskilful.
I did it out of my own frustration and you didn’t deserve to be at the end of it. I shoud have taken better care of my own feelings so that I didn’t hurt others.
I am more mindful. I am more responsible for my own emotions today. And I am finding ways how to be compassionate with myself and others at the same time when times are tough.
I believe that vulnerability and humility should be an invitation for being genuine and open. It’s a great honor when somebody offers me their true heart. ❤️
What specifically do you mean about the fake words, Anita?
I can see that you have been a bit upset by these words, Alessa?Do you think that we could find a way how to discuss this openly, politely and with compassion? Maybe… it’s a test. It is a great opportunity how to cultivate compassion with ourselves and others.
However, there is no need to rush. I suggest we take a break, go for a walk, spend time with loved ones and come back with relaxed mind. 🤗
I’ll do that. I’ll be back on Monday.
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silvery blue
ParticipantHello Anita,
Yes, it’s me Jana. 🦋
I apologize that I hurt you. It wasn’t my intention.
I felt hurt, too. But I decided that I would cultivate the seeds of love in me and others.
“Love means to protect, to offer the feeling of security, of non-fear in ourselves and in others.”
I’m looking for ways how to do this especially in hard times of conflict so that no one suffers too much.
Sending 🌸
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