Just an update: She has been very distant. I have given her space and only respond to her messages. Well today I asked her what was going on with her. She said she was sorry, that she’s dealing with a lot of emotional bs with the ex. I told her that I was going to lay low, but that I’m right here if she needs to talk. Is this behavior normal for someone coming out of a toxic relationship? I won’t turn my back on her. I’m drawn to her for some reason. Will taking a step back help? I’m so confused.

I appreciate both of your insights. I guess it’s just tough to accept because it feels like we are meant to give us a chance. I guess we will see what happens. Thank you.