Thanks both.

Anita, a lot to go into but it was a night out with a particular friend. I know as we’ve spoken about  this night, it’s just now that the timing of it fell into place. As I say I may be wrong, he said it was Christmas time. He’d just been hurt from a cheating wife, so he didn’t owe me anything at that time. We class our anniversary as being 22nd December, knowing that he may have been with someone after that has been a little hard to deal with. My husband did the same to me, I just wanted this to be a different start.

Mark… I know it does seem fast and I’m not one to jump in usually but I know it’s right. He’s the man I was meant to be with, placid, kind, no games, great dad and comes from a good loving family. After both suffering from failed marriages, it’s not something I would look to do again, he feels the same. Maybe that will change in time. We both have split 50/50 custody of the children. We all get on, so I’m not worried about the moving in aspect. Our boys  will always come first.