She cares for me and we enjoy each others company and have a great time together but it hasn’t moved any further. She doesn’t want to even consider moving in. I’m in love with her, I really love her and can see my whole future with her. Deep down I think I know, my fears that she cares but doesn’t love me the same way and doesn’t want a future with me are starting to make me feel really negative but I keep thinking maybe with time it will come. I haven’t loved anyone like her and I don’t want to. What do I do? I’m scared if I broach the topic she will leave me, she has been close to doing it before when she felt pressured so I steered it away and continued as we were but I know I’m not fulfilled like this but don’t want to let her go. Everyone is saying I deserve better but why can’t I see it?

Thanks for the reply. There is no way she would consider therapy. Even when I bring it up carefully she makes it seem like I’m the strange one or with the problem. I guess I am as to me by now she should have said I love you. My friends who have  seen our relationship always comment we are good together but even they now think that she may have just been enjoying the ride for what it is and not really into the idea of a proper committed future with me. She keeps saying I don’t want to think about it and so forth. I keep going a long and being patient because I do love her and want a future. Have I set myself up for a fall? Anyone else been in this position?