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    My problem comes from anxious thoughts. I have this ā€œfriendā€ although I donā€™t consider him a friend, I consider him someone Iā€™m nice to because Iā€™m scared of him. He intimidates me. I graduate in 4 months and I feel like Iā€™ve spent parts of my senior year scared of what this boy could do to me. He always has drama, some might consider him a sociopath because he starts random problems and thinks heā€™s always right. Itā€™s clear that he finds enjoyment out of hurting others emotionally (not physically as far as I know). Basically because Iā€™ve talked to my therapist about this, I want to know what I can do to avoid him for example: starting a rumor about me, making lies about me or twisting stories like heā€™s done to others. When I graduate I want to block him on everything but Iā€™m scared I could run into him. I wish it was as easy as getting a restraining order but I know that Iā€™d need to prove my reasonings and being that he has not threatened me (yet) thereā€™s nothing I can do. Some example of why I think he will lash out on me some day is, he used to get mad when I wouldnā€™t hang out with him. I found ways around it through saying I hang out with no one and Iā€™m focusing on school. I just want to know what I can do to get away. He knows something about me that isnā€™t really that serious and the only reason he knows is because he did this thing and I said that I had a similar situation (I wish I could go back and say that I couldnā€™t relate). Another friend I had also had the same situation and he knows and he no longer talks to her because she doesnā€™t like him as a person and he never used this incident against her, but still I worry he might you my situation against me. Itā€™s all really stupid but itā€™s all he has that he could use against me and he could really twist the story around if he wanted to. So what do I do? Do I stay friends with the person who makes me uncomfortable forever Until I finally move away? Or do I cut him off and face the consequences that could drive my mental health down to a spirally black hole and panic to the point where Iā€™m hospitalized? This is something I think about a lot. Any advice would be great during this time. Thank you.

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