Hello,

I was reading your message and couldn’t help but think that I feel the EXACT same way.

My boyfriend hurt me after 1 month of dating, when he hooked up with another girl at a nightclub, while I was on vacation. We were only dating for 1 month, and had only met 1 month before then – so we barely knew each other. But he still asked me to be his girlfriend and didn’t want to see other people.

I found out when our mutual guy friend told me. I was absolutely broken.

He also re-added his ex girlfriend on Facebook when he told me he deleted her. He also did some other things to hurt me. I broke up with him 3 times because of all of this.

4 years later, he treats me amazing. But it’s been 4 years and I can’t stop thinking about all the bad things he has done.

I feel like I can’t get that out of my head.

What do I do?