Hi Kate, You situation sounds just like me. Its being an year and I dont know, how to forget those memories. But divorce is going on in the court and bad thing is that I am lawyer and ….im fighting for myself. Where she alleging all false allegations on me and whatever I did with my pure heart, that every single thing is now turned into bad intention, bad allegations. God! I somehow got used to it. But in the silence its pains. I dont think I will believe in love again. My relation was years long but just after marriage, its like “ah! i want to end it”…she never thought what I will feel and how it will effect my future, being that stage of live where my career is nothing and mounting tensions kill me.
It feels like personal life is dead. Somehow I am alive; missing someone every moment.
Well not talking about negative things, being a guy whose whole life revolves around beloved, personal life, love and was happiest to marry a girl whom I always loved, and it fell apart with allegations. blame game, etc.
I learned that apart from all this Life has to be discovered, you have to find yourself, there are lots of things we need to know about us. We have to grow and make a new identity. Think its your rebirth and may be personal life is over but its only a tiny part.
Believe in yourself, believe in God.