I agree with Lia that it helps when I ‘settle’ before making a life changing decision and when I do not make the decision out of emotions. Your boyfriend, ahhhhh, do you really want to be with a person that makes huge decisions that affect your life. Can you really trust someone who is sitting in a room with you, I assume sharing a bed, eating next to you and while thinking of moving far away he does not talk with you about this major change?

This is just my opinion…RUN…you will have to heal but how can you trust him…do you really still trust him? Take care of yourself. It is his choice to move and that is okay but to be in a partner relationship and not treat you like a partner, well that says it all.

Namaste, pm

• This reply was modified 10 years, 10 months ago by peter martin.