Thank you so much Kinny for taking the time to respond. I know in my heart the trip to Berlin is something I’ll remember for a lifetime. The people I’m going with know it really well so it won’t be touristy like it would be if I go another time. I don’t think I would guilt trip someone else or tell them they had to be there. But on the other hand it’s.great of her to be so passionate because it is a really important cause.

I don’t think I’m burnt out by my altruistic deeds but I do agree that it should be done in a free spirit of giving, not grudgingly or under duress. I will make up in another area of my giving time.

Thanks again, your reply made sense and took a load off my mind.