fbpx
Menu

Patrik

Forum Replies Created

Viewing 3 posts - 1 through 3 (of 3 total)
  • Author
    Posts
  • May 23, 2018 at 9:09 am #208963
    Patrik
    Participant

    Hi Christy,

    I think it is not relevant if a person is enlightened or not, in the end this just a label and labels rarely fit to people. I can understand your hesitation to consider yourself enlightened.

    Life is changing all the time and it looks to me as if you are finding your way in it.

    May 22, 2018 at 8:06 am #208651
    Patrik
    Participant

    Hi Grace,

    I don’t think your boyfriend’s jokes are funny and honestly I don’t think what he said were jokes but he probably doesn’t really know why he said what he said.

    Close relationships bring out our weaknesses and sides we didn’t know we had and sides we we are not able to admit for ourselves.

    I get a feeling that you have not told your boyfriend about all the things you tell here in the forum. I think it is always good to fully express how you feel about something in a relationship, regardless of how your boyfriend reacts.

    Perhaps you want to look for yourself why you want your boyfriend to say something bad about someone else? Do you know why it will make you better? Do you feel you have to compete with the other woman?

    I hope this is helpful.

    Best wishes.

    May 22, 2018 at 8:06 am #208639
    Patrik
    Participant

    Hi Christy,

    It seems you reached very profound insights by questioning your ideas and seeing that they were false. This signifies a big change and your mind has a difficult time adjusting to it. I would say that it is very normal to feel confused and it will take time to get used to it.

    With time it will also become clear what this means for you and what direction things will go for you.

    There are people who have had similar experiences and have written about it such as Eckhart Tolle and Sadhguru. You could look at their stories to get an idea, but I think this would just be a way to ease your mind and in itself it is not needed to do anything, it will become clear for you at some point.

    Best wishes.

  • Author
    Posts
Viewing 3 posts - 1 through 3 (of 3 total)