Dear em1111
I been seeing 11:11 since last six years and believe me I went through the same thing as you. What I have come to learn is that asking is not enough, believing that you can do what you focus on is the truth spiritually or scientifically. My advise to you is stop expecting external signs of what you should do the only validation you will get is the result of your own effort in motion. Focus your energy inward and ask what you are not doing and what you should be doing. Please do ready Dr. Wayne Dyer’s book or listen to him on youtube. Seek inspiration that can manifest into your own life. The reasons for you unhappiness is not a permanent thing. Those reasons can take form as you become more alive in your will. Good luck to you.