He was quite upset that I wanted to take time away from him, and I told him that if you want this relationship to actually have a chance you need to prove a lot, and genuinely be sorry. Because starting a massive temper tantrums over a stuffed bear, and think it is okay and not even feel remorseful, it’s beyond immature. And if he fakes it to be sorry well I am aware of it!

Thank you for your responses and replies.

I had no idea he didn’t like stuffed toys as I have sent him silly surprises before as he with me. So he made me feel quite bad, he yelled pretty much that I should know better and understand that he is a man, and not a fu***ng teenager.

He has been under some stress due to his family as far as I know because he vented with me like I have with him. And I can understand people have bad days etc. but it doesn’t justify the things he said. He made me feel inadequate and stupid for buying him a small bear. And what destroyed me is that he doesn’t see the problem with what he said, even if he hated it he didn’t have to act like a complete moron. I don’t understand the big deal it was a small token until we could see each other as I had something planned for that, so I honestly feel a bit broken and confused. He hurted my feelings! And also when I explained that it wasn’t the actual birthday gift, it was coming later, he said I should plan better and not send shit like that!