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  • January 29, 2015 at 8:30 am in reply to: Wants to talk, but she hasn't called… #72063
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    Ferretgal,

    I’ll do exactly that. Thank you!

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    January 27, 2015 at 9:03 pm in reply to: Wants to talk, but she hasn't called… #71990
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    Hey Katlyne!

    Unfortunately, her mother does not believe in therapy. They’ve never gone to any kind of therapy, so she’s never been given any kind of psychological evaluation. I offered to go with her, but that didn’t seem good enough.

    As for me, I have yet to fully grasp closure because I still love her. She will know what she’s missing out on because out of the many men in her past who have done her really wrong, I was the only who actually tried to put her first. I made a great move by handling all the bullshit all relationships go through here and there.

    Closure will come. But I don’t think I’ll get it if I ever talk to her.

    January 27, 2015 at 10:53 am in reply to: Wants to talk, but she hasn't called… #71967
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    Smit Jain, Inky, & Este,

    Thank you all for your opinions. I have held ground and I won’t even bother calling or texting.

    I have been working out a lot and writing (I write a lot of poetry, hence the name, hehe).

    Este, to answer your question: she’s pretty, but she’s not drop-dead gorgeous. I’m 6’0″; she’s 4’11”. I do have physical standards she’ll never meet, but I forgave all of that because I believed that her and I would go somewhere. However, a lot of the negative comes to mind. We barely had good days. Whenever she was happy, it was like she was a manic or just high off some massive dose of oxytocin. Other days (which were the majority) she’d be moody, paranoid, and just downright sad. It annoyed me later on in the relationship because I held in the sadness and frustration because I felt impotent and helpless. Finally, I snapped…

    When she left me, I felt relief and a sense of freedom. Why was I sad when my friend told me that my ex wanted to speak to me? Because I actually cared. I actually grew to love her. But she did take me for granted. When I become an attorney in NY and she hears about me, she’ll know then what she’s missing out on.

    I can fly again. That’s what comes to mind.

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