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  • August 4, 2018 at 10:17 am in reply to: Should I consider this new guy #220321
    pineapplegirl
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    Your replies are very helpful. I believe I am just scared to get hurt again. I would like to fall in love rather than marry for convinience. However, I realize talking to some men doesn’t make them become my partner or that my parents will want me to choose. For me it’s not based on horoscope but I just fear if I keep saying no my mother will not like it. This is just a fear.

    May 1, 2018 at 9:29 am in reply to: Should I accept him? #205103
    pineapplegirl
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    Dear Anita

    Thankyou for the advice. I agree I feel a pressure over me to make a quick decision when what I really need is time to think about it which I will. Thankyou so much!

    May 1, 2018 at 8:07 am in reply to: Should I accept him? #205077
    pineapplegirl
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    I don’t know how to move on. I thought I had finally found someone worth spending the rest of my life with. I am under a lot of pressure to marry. The society is unkind. I just do not want to think about any man because I am really sad right now. I see him everywhere and miss him and everything about him. He is for me one of those guys I have a really hard time getting over especially because despite everything we were happy together.

    May 1, 2018 at 7:05 am in reply to: Should I accept him? #205067
    pineapplegirl
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    Thank you for the great advice. I am just afraid it is too late to work things out now. My family is now against his family. I want things to work out but he wants me to live with his mom or close to her. I made it clear I wanted things to work but I would like my privacy but since he has to support his family he can have her live in another house close to us once we are financially strong enough.

    I just want him to be able to support me when his mom talks against me. I am really really confused. I have been given a month to think about this. My friends say I should not be thinking about it at all and let go. I am trying to move ahead but I cant stop thinking about him. I am from a wealthy family and he isn’t, but I never took that as a negative. I feel love is enough for two people to live a happy life but I fear he will always choose his mom over me.

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