Dear Anita

Thankyou for the advice. I agree I feel a pressure over me to make a quick decision when what I really need is time to think about it which I will. Thankyou so much!

Thank you for the great advice. I am just afraid it is too late to work things out now. My family is now against his family. I want things to work out but he wants me to live with his mom or close to her. I made it clear I wanted things to work but I would like my privacy but since he has to support his family he can have her live in another house close to us once we are financially strong enough.

I just want him to be able to support me when his mom talks against me. I am really really confused. I have been given a month to think about this. My friends say I should not be thinking about it at all and let go. I am trying to move ahead but I cant stop thinking about him. I am from a wealthy family and he isn’t, but I never took that as a negative. I feel love is enough for two people to live a happy life but I fear he will always choose his mom over me.

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