Hello and thank you Anita,

I believe that you are absolutely correct . He is not sincere or genuine in his words or actions and I think a part of me knew it as well . Yes, it’s always as if I have done something wrong and should apologise , it’s always the way . There always have to be an apology about something , from me . He’s usually glad he’s done or said something . I used to think the apologies he demanded from me were apologies he never got from his mum or dad for his rotten childhood.

Well, today I felt a bit sad and missed him or missed what we might have  been doing this weekend but that feeling was soon over . I am OK and when I’m not, I soon will be .

Peyton

Hey Anita and Eliana,

Thank you both for your replies.

Anita- yes, i totally thinks this is the case and affects the relationship very negatively and now I am exhausted. I don’t know how to handle it and I’m not sure I want to anymore . He said he needed space and now he wants to meet up, to be honest I don’t want to go .

Eliana- I am very tempted to walk away from this relationship as I am not happy , my mind and body was relieved when he wanted space now I feel rather tense again. I really think that him saying he wanted space was a game to kind of see my reaction, I said it was a good idea because I needed to figure out what’s best for me too .  I don’t think he believed me or expected that reaction and so have ignored me .