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meParticipantSo….im told she hung out with a bunch of people at my work and she’s quite bitchy, which is odd as I’ve never seen her bitchy ever. Maybe she’s looking for Canadian citizenship?
meParticipantWell I won’t be talking to her for a while, as she’s going back home and I told her I’ll message her in a while as she’s gets all set up and stuff. Basically said she knows I won’t be able to go long without messaging her with a wink ( ill just delete the app off my phone) I fired her from being my tour guide but she refuses so I had to re hire her, and wants to be rich so us seeing each other more often is easier.
meParticipantWell, we cleared everything up. If I go to her country she wants to be my tour guide (although I fired her heh) when she comes back here we will meet up. Was not happy about my text, but she knows we live far away. I also told her I still wanna see you regardless. I’d make sure we have lots of fun times.
meParticipantKeep smiling.
meParticipantWho doesn’t have fun with me? I wanted to see her too but I’m realistic.
meParticipantWell I don’t plan to talk to her for a month while she gets used to home life again, she never responded to me so she obviously did not like my text of not seeing each other again so I guess she wanted to see me, but we never hung out before so I’d obviously not think she was serious.
I’ll try.
meParticipantOh I know it won’t help me in the future but she’s going 9000kms away, not much I can do. She’s going to be at the other side of the world, leaves nothing left and by the time I can see her we’d likely not be talking anymore.
meParticipantThat’s fine I bounce back. Our last messages were basically
Her: Plan to visit my country!!
Me: After Thailand? Sure but I’d need a tour guide, know any? 😀
Me: You know I’m playing around, right? I know we won’t be seeing each other anymore lol. Just wanna let you know so you aren’t creeped out or anything.I mean it’s not like I will text her I’m in Thailand and to come and see me, I’m there visiting a buddy and his mom. Maybe her country we can if she asks to meeet me, won’t go out of my way to say “hey I’m here let’s meet up”.
meParticipantYeah I told her I will miss her today (she said hahahaha I will miss you too), she’s about to head back home. Joke with her about traveling and seeing her, but let her know I’m just playing around and I’m not serious, I know I’ll never see you again. She asked me about a visa when I visit my buddy and said I’ll only be a few weeks but I’ll see if she’s around and can come, she said lol (which means no). At the end I said I am not serious about seeing her, just playing around. She’s gone, probably won’t be talking to her again. 15 hours is too far.
meParticipantIn person goofing around? Yeah. But I won’t go after her obviously.
meParticipantHey been a weird month losing most of my stuff. Anyway nothing really changed, still talk but gave her a voice message and wanted to get 1 back but she is a shy girl so gave it a shot before deleting it. Almost been a month now, will have to tell her I miss her soon.
meParticipantEven if I don’t go with her, i’ll see my budy so doesn’t matter really. Known him since he was born.
meParticipantHmmmm I guess she’s not done with me yet…started really messaging me today since I invited her to come with me to Thailand when I get my passport when I visit my buddy there, probably next year sometime. Need money first. I guess she really was wanting to travel with me afterall.
meParticipantWill miss you too.
It was an interesting time, from the first time we met anytime I was in the lunchroom and she was there she would imediatly stare at me and rarely look away (either attraction or curiousity), it was awkward. But it eventually stopped when we started talking a little. She has that sweet Taiwanese girl voice and from the games we played like thumb wars, she would link her arms slowly into mine (testing boundaries), to trying to jump on my back, to lifting her up on my side and swinging her around, to chasing her watching her giggle, to trapping her in the corner with a cart so she can’t get out, to our phone games (showing out pets on our phone and acting them out), leaning on her, our backs together and trying to move (one of her favourites), when she sees me in the morning run towards me and bump my side, stand infront of me with her eyes shut and a smile using her teeth, to our poking eachother and our tickling eachother, i’d put a box on her head and my eyes would go to the holes in the box and met her eyes there, or revearsed it, and constantly tagging her with a sticker gun, or her tagging me…my supervisor always had a smile when we were around eachother, same with 1 of the bosses, and a bunch of other things we did together, plus what I mentioned about her last day at work wanting to be around me and the text. No doubt this was some type of “romantic” interest, sadly she had to go back home but I am sure I made an amazing impression on her (like she did me).
I’m sure if I asked if she wanted to do something outside of work we would make awesome memories, but you should not ask coworkers out (then again we also should not have done most of the things we did anyway, but it felt right so we did it).
Now I am out.
meParticipantOh I am sure it’s over by now between us lol, I mean we were just co workers and I don’t like keeping them around when they quit because you never see or talk to them again. Maybe i’ll reach out 1 day who knows, if I can’t connect with her in person (which I can’t) what’s the point? 1 line of text a day is not enough for me, especially if I can’t even see and talk to the person. I’ll miss her quite a bit but It was never going to work out as she was leaving the country. I don’t take offense to being ghosted, she’s leaving the country and maybe she really was just thinking of me as a co worker platonic friend but liked the attention, who knows. But if she only found me as a platonic friend, she would likely be repulsed by our touching. You need physical connection to another person, talking was never our thing…physical touch and flirtation was. I got stuff to do now, no time to mope. I moped when my dad died, now it’s time to move on. I guess this thread is finished, never meant it to last long but decided to post this connection here because it’s been a while since I posted. I’m sure I will be around again with another situation.
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