Dear Breakfastat,
My suggestion to you is that you consider attending Al Anon meetings. I, to0, live with addiction in my world and have codependency issues I need to work on. I’ve been going to Al Anon for about 4 months now. It has helped me tremendously to answer questions like the ones you’re posing. How do you know you’re on the right path? Sometimes you don’t, but day by day I’m learning to trust my gut and follow my intuition. As I’m doing that I sense I’m moving in the right direction and there’s a certain peace in my spirit. Go inside, meditate and pray. Find others whose experiences are similar to yours to help you gain perspective. Then, learn to trust yourself, and the Spirit who is guiding you.
PerfectlyImperfect