She was always clear about how she felt about me, but at the beginning she was much more loved. Then it stopped being and it was only once in a while. But now about a month ago it started to be a lot more than I was used to. And since that message I feel it. It seemed like a shock to me. Dating her was always a roller coaster ride, as if she was going to be in a good mood, if she was going to be cheeky, or if she was going to be upset with me. I didn’t realize it, but she is like that, and I was fine with it, I thought. I know this is very confusing, but that’s how I feel and I don’t know what to do. And I am very grateful to be trying to help me

Hi Anita, I apologize for the delay in responding. These days to think and I came to the conclusion below. She didn’t start out much with me and then she stopped being. Not that it was bad for me, but it wasn’t that intense. But now it started to be more. If all of that is discarded, when I send a message to say that I love and she says that too and that her life is no longer important. Did this spark something in me?It seems that I question everything we think for our future
I was with her on Sunday and when I saw her I felt like it was the first date, but then the thoughts came back, I don’t understand.
Regarding number 5, she doesn’t live with me, but with her parents

Will it be better if I leave this house? More than a week has passed and the feeling of love for her has not returned. I was undeniably happy with her. I’m really desperate. We haven’t talked in a few days and I think of her, I can’t get out of my head, but it seems that the good memories I had with her have disappeared, along with the desire to be with her. This is so bad. Do you think time will allow me to be happy with her again?

Thank you very much for the help Anita, I really appreciate

My girlfriend was a little complicated, I admit. Sometimes it was super cute, other times it seems like it was upset. It’s random and I didn’t understand it very well. But we are not all the same and I understood, she was like that, and I handled it well. She herself said she didn’t understand that. This hasn’t even happened for a long time. Of course, this sometimes led to arguments, but then we talked and everything was fine because we loved each other. We dated for 4 years and after 8 months she started getting weird and asked for a break. I didn’t understand it very well but I gave it time. Even thinking that she wanted to break up. I started going out with friends and probably jealous she sent me a message again. We were in uncertainty for about two months, more on her part than mine. One day I said enough, whether you want it or not and she said yes and since then everything has been going super well. I’m sure she loves me, she cares about me, she treats me well. It was reciprocal. And out of nowhere it happens to me to stop having a feeling of indifference for her when in the previous second I was completely in love with her. I swear I don’t understand this. I didn’t want to live a lie, but I also didn’t want to lose it. And I’m afraid of this. How can I get out of this nightmare, and love her again? More than a week passed and the feeling didn’t return

Hello Anita, thank you very much for responding, and for your help! Anxiety only comes when I think of it, a huge fear of not feeling a love for her again. When we were together it seemed that I felt nothing. And the day before we were really happy. And out of nowhere, can it change everything from one second to the next? It’s very weird. It seems that I have the feeling of love stuck. The pandemic has changed my habit a lot, but I think I was handling it well. In the family, there were always some problems, since I was a kid, I saw my mother arguing with my father about alcohol, and at school I can say that I didn’t have the happiest times. Do you think this can still work?