Well certainly two perspectives 🙂 Eric I appreciate your honesty and passion behind your opinion forgiving is what i am truly working on, justification no some assistance in understanding what is right and wrong for me and my children yes.

The interesting thing is me speaking honestly to myself and her has actually opened up a great line of communication. She has taken some steps towards her health she was resisting previously. she has a great pathway and a wonderful home to return to and I can continue to try and forgive, support and accept!

Helen- Thank you for your kind words Toxic is the right description and this honest conversation with myself, my stepfather, my brother and her has been extremely healing.

Happy New Year

Love to all!