Oh my gosh, I wish I found this way sooner. I have really bad anxiety so when I read through all of these posts it was a huge relief. I have never really been through a long term anxiety like this before but about a month ago, my friend (whoâs a guy â> my best friendâ made a âgayâ/bromance joke about me and for some reason my mind started to spiral and I felt so anxious all the time about my sexuality. I am also in a long distance relationship and I felt like it definitely was affecting things. For me, when I get nervous, I talk to everyone and it was really hard for once for me to talk about this. I ended up talking to my therapist about this and while that helped it definitely didnât do near the help that this thread has helped me with. The questions of âam I gayâ and âam I biâ are kind of disturbing sometimes to think about (even for someone who is totally supportive of LGBTQ+ People). Just know that you are not a line in this process. Thank you so much tiny Buddha, you just saved me from a lot of anxiety that I didnât want.