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Micaela Miranda

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    Micaela Miranda
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    Dear Barbara,
    now with 2 days of distance, I’m sure you already feel that you can get up again.
    Or maybe you are still going down deep in a well of grief and making yourself feeling guilty or….

    I deeply believe that all our relationships in life are the mirror of the relationships we have with ourselves.
    How do you feel about that?

    When I read you words, many things resonate with me.

    Before, I didn’t realize that my lack of self-esteem was making him also doubt himself. That my needy moments were making him feel I am doubting about our relationship… and that me doubting was exactly what was keeping it from being a FULL-filled experience between two beings that join forces to create the life that they most desire.

    I wanted to share with you the best advice I have ever had about keeping a relationship:The best gift you can give your partner is to be a woman who loves herself.

    Invest in yourself. Don’t expect for him to give you what you need. Only you can give yourself what you need.

    To live a couple life is a choice. Clearly a choice.

    We have chosen and we are stubborn: we can only be stubborn or else it won’t work.

    Most of the time we are busy with everything else, most of the time it’s hard to meet and enjoy. But I see it like that: we are a team – we have decided to partner in the most amazing team ever to create our lives together.

    It’s so so important that we support each other… and you know how I do it?

    I support myself first.

    Because I have found out that everything I need is in me. And what a terrible mistake it is to be expecting from him to bring me all those things that are: confidence, calm, happiness, positive thinking…

    I love his way not being my way.

    We speak very different love languages. I want to talk about everything all the time, I want to be cuddling all the time and sometimes I just need my time alone. He goes and fixes everything in the house, cooks for us everyday, brings me things he knows (or thinks) I love and it’s his way to tell me how much he thinks about me.

    I am in wonder and thankful for our relationship every minute that passes by.

    I always realize how much we learn together, how much we grew, how much we have this telepathic understanding. I am so thankful for all these little details that make our life. I know that it is not perfect. I used to be afraid of the boredom, the routine. I actually have changed my mind. I started to find it as really confortable rituals that we did naturally that indeed do our home.

    I hope this helps,
    Love
    M

    #51513
    Micaela Miranda
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    To find how imagination works with gravity.

    We come to this life to learn how we can find and implement our higher purpose.

    From free form, we take the form of matter to experiment conflict so we re-discover empathy for the Universe.

    does it make sense?

    #51512
    Micaela Miranda
    Participant

    What I have found is that whatever I do to get into creative flow mode can be explained in a very simple routine:

    I warm-up my playfulness – it can be to put some music up and dance, make word games with what everyone says or try to get that piece of paper right into the basket from a challenging distance

    Open space for creativity – breathe, meditate, go for a walk in the woods, be silent, listen.

    Make sure my space for creating is clear and ready for a successful creating session – it really plays with my mood to have clear space will I be writing, drawing or training… creation space is sacred, and easy to keep clean and with positive energy if we just remember that it is a sacred task to declutter it. I ,for example, dedicate 5 minutes a day and it works very well for me.

    Make sure I won’t be interrupted – as a mother and host of a house that never stops with people coming in and out (I’m proud and thankful of my busy social life! But there must be sacred balance!) I just am not shy to ask my beautiful soulmate to take over for a while on kids and friends OR make sure everyone is happy and busy in activities OR schedule in my creation time in times that I know I’ll have peace and quiet (funny side note: while I was writing this post, I had my 3 year old daughter and her friend emptying the whole closet. So also, to be flexible if your scheduling strategies don’t work PERFECT and just work around it – also good piece of advice)

    Spread the love, M

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