wow…that sounds just like my ex or soon-to-be-ex (or whatever the hell he is) P.O.S. boyfriend….with minor differences in details….. He wants you to feel responsible just because he’s got no balls to admit that he was never too serious about it and now he is looking for an easy way out of it. And by putting the blame on you he gets out clean. That’s why he said that you revolved your life around him. He wants you to feel guilty so that he can avoid explaining his sorry ass. He was probably playing serious for some time but when he noticed that you really are into it for real and that you don’t consider your relationship a joke he is backing off and running. I’m dealing with almost the exact same situation, as we speak. He’s got you exactly where he wants you: feeling responsible and desperate. It’s not you, it’s HIM. So, don’t cry, start sleeping and eating…go out with your friends and celebrate it with a beer because you have just saved yourself from an obvious player. There are a lot of liars out there with absolutely no remorse what-so-ever and consider yourself lucky when you find that out on time so that you have time to run like hell from such people before they screw up your life completely.