I think it is my mindset. I meet many women but I think there is something holding me back. Maybe it’s the fear of rejection? I’m still trying to figure it out. I also have this mindset of a time stamp for everything. And this is something that needs to stop. I want to meet so and so by this date. I might just have to accept that my journey is going to be different than others and that comparing is not going to get me anywhere.

The main problem I am experiencing is that I am getting more and more frustrated in my search for love. Maybe I am appearing desperate? I think my other problem is comparing myself with others and I am constantly worried about what others think of me. At the end of the day, I would like to have a solid relationship but at the same time don’t want to settle for just anyone. In other words, I don’t want to be in a relationship just to be in one. I want to find someone I am compatible with and I think that’s the trouble I am having. Using this amazing website, what advice could you and others give me to find true love? Is it my attitude possibly?

It is noticeable and I have accepted that it will be noticed by people. The relationship only lasted a couple months and it was good. I just feel like I always feel like I’m missing something and doing something wrong. That’s why I’m here to get advice on how to tackle this. I look at others and sometimes get jealous wishing it was me. I know I shouldn’t be comparing but it’s just so hard.